When people judge and think that they have glowing hearts, tell the story of the servant girl, it's well known and true, it is a story that has taken place in every society, every class of people and culture that so many gets wrapped up into thinking that their "culture" or their "community" is somehow better than or immune to such blemishes. Tell the story and watch their faces change, hearts no longer glow, everyone becomes human, and then and only then can we walk humbly with our God again, that's why you tell the story.
Not long ago a servant girl in Georgia or Finland, who knows, was suspected of having secretly given birth to a child in her coffin-sized room, she is aged 16. She was always watched, and yet a box of which no one knew anything about was found in the corner of this small loft, behind some old bricks. It was opened and inside was found the body of a newborn child, some horrible looking blueish-purple thing which she had killed. In the same box were found the tiny skeletons of two other newborns which, according to her own confession later, that she had also killed at the moment of their birth.
We all adhere to the same words, but if you're going to judge, judge tenderly.